Not a single family member informed me of my grandma's heart attack. I had to find out through Facebook seeing my grandma's best friend post asking for prayers for my grandma that my grandma was dying. I went to the bathroom as soon as I seen the post and prayed to God that he heal my grandma and all I could think about in class was my grandma in the hospital dying and me not there to tell her goodbye. After school my dad was in the driveway telling me she passed. I didn't lose it until mom pulled into the driveway and I told her and she went off on my dad because he didn't tell me or my sister nor drive us up to see my grandma to tell her goodbye. I often think to myself and regret that I never got to say goodbye. To make matters worse her best friend passed this March due to a botched gastric bypass and saying goodbye to her and seeing her on life support gave me PTSD. I seen a photo of my grandma and her best friend from a photo Montage played during her best friends funeral and I lost it again realizing that they're both dead and gone. If one of your family members are on life support go say goodbye to them, it will be the hardest thing you'll have to do but it'll be harder if you don't do it and regret it.