3. What's one aspect of your relationship that AskWomen would vehemently disagree w...

What's one aspect of your relationship that AskWomen would vehemently disagree with?

And during that time I blow him

Well he is a lucky man to have a dedicated SO like you. I can't help feeling resentful that I don't get this treatment during my Fiancee's periods because she also gets very moody and mean during this time. (I guess the women in her family have notoriously bad cramps) But I can't help the way I feel, especially when I rub her feet, legs, back, you name it whenever she asks me to. I know this isn't sexual so it isn't the same, which is her reasoning, but I never ask for anything anymore, it just turns into a fight and its just not worth it. I'd rather go have a disappointing masturbation orgasm by myself and avoid the drama of asking for anything from her. When I rarely do ask or hint at it, she always acts like she just did it yesterday or 'does it all the time', but she has a very selective memory about this. I have a very high libido and she doesn't, except when it suits her. Basically if I'm not in the mood and she is (rare) I'm an asshole. If she isn't in the mood and I am and I ask for a BJ, I'm an asshole. And to top it off she doesn't even get into it, treats it like a chore and 95% of the time its really just a handjob while she literally sits next to me on the couch. Exciting, I know...

I just don't know how to communicate to her that I really don't appreciate half assed handjobs with no enthusiasm without it turning into me being a huge asshole every time. It's making me second guess marrying her and it's only 7 months away.

And I would totally have period sex and I constantly offer to go down on her because I enjoy doing it. Her being self conscious and hesitant about this really makes me sad, I tell her how beautiful she is all the time and how much I love her, but then I come here and read about some of you women and your amazing attitudes about sex and blowjobs and I just get depressed. I think, "Why don't I have that?" & "What the fuck am I doing?".

Sorry for the rant, and possibly going off topic. Delete it if you want mods, I don't care. Just needed to get this off my chest.

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