Although it's already happening, can we just clarify that ANYONE male/female/other that is straight/gay/other can be slutty?
This isn't a "slut shaming" thread. It is a "slutty situation" shaming thread if anything. Yes. Threads like this have a large number of stories where women or gay men are the person of focus.
This isn't to say that men aren't or can't be sluts, but it is likely there are fewer single incidents that are a defining "slutty act". Most of the men that I would consider "slutty" have had sex with many women, but it is usually over many separate acts.
I think most people view "slutty" as a number of people you have been with. When the acts involve many people (which is usually woman or gay-male and many males) the number of people the person of focus has been with increases greatly (which is viewed as slutty), while the number for participants is mainly one.
Most of this comes down to the ability for things to occur.
A man or woman participating in group sex or multiple acts of sex, who is the focus of males will likely have many more people; than a situation where there is a male and many females.
Are there men that would be willing to fuck/eat/pleasure any and all women at a party? I would think quite a few, but there are likely fewer women that would participate.
People will say a man is a "legend" for sleeping with multiple woman at once, or over a short period of time. This is because it is generally, much more difficult for a man to make this happen. People in general view those who accomplish something difficult with admiration.
Finally, just because stories are upvoted doesn't mean that they are "the sluttiest". People enjoy humor and how the story is told.
The wine tasting story is the best comment as of right now, but do most people really think a threesome with a female and two guys is really all that slutty? Likely not.
If anyone has a threesome (any combination of genders) that in itself may be inherently slutty to some people. I don't hold that opinion, but some more conservative people might.
The situation and accompanying story is pretty funny, which is likely why it is at the top of the thread. The engaged guy is an asshole and I would say is the "sluttiest" of the three because he cheated on his fiancée .