Someone in my family was in a horrible accident this summer. I became their legal guardian. Someone else in this family questioned my motives and decisions at almost every turn despite me always trying my best to do the right thing (for most of my life not just this) and that person being known for being one of the biggest a-holes around.

I reach out to her to give her an update at one point and she flipped out about how I was doing everything wrong and was an inconsiderate, selfish asshole. She was the only one in my whole family who felt this way. Everyone else thought I was doing what was best. And now, months later, it turns out I was and still am, indeed doing what was and is best for the injured person.

Then after literally months of silence from her because I was done reaching out at that point. She reaches out about how she has had so much trouble getting info and it has been so hard on her. Basically making it seem like it's my fault when all she had to do was call or text or visit the injured family member. None of which she did. But I was no longer going to go out of my way to keep her in the loop after how she acted and apparently that makes me the bad guy.