Tbh this is kinda fresh in my head because it literally just happened a week ago.
So, when I first transferred to Balmung, I was picked up by a Linkshell aiming for progression and helping. One of my better friends in that LS was the leader of an FC - one of his FC Members actually then became one of my best friends - both in game and out of game. So I got invited to their FC Discord, I wanna say....half a year ago? And I was going through some shit at the time. I was rash, I was course, and I was rough around the edges. I admit all of this because it gives you context.
I eventually exploded on the FC Leader for spreading mis-information he pulled from the dredges of reddit, and was promptly kicked from the Discord. Which is fine, I deserved it. Over the past half a year, I've mellowed out, worked on patching up my rough edges, which has worked to a really good degree. I became a much better person to talk to, and I was accepted back into the FC when I re-applied after shit went down elsewhere because I didn't want to be alone.
One of the co-leads hates my guts. Even he doesn't know why, but he's currently the only person that does hate me. I was a little brash in my opinions the other day, not towards any of them, but in general (Basically. I said that the tank isn't really needed short of expert roulette and above.) So, this causes drama when the co-lead hears about it and wants to kick me out.
So, the leader was going to have a sit-down with me and the rest of the FC so we can talk about things, but the co-lead takes matters into his own hands and just...straight-up kicks me. He doesn't give me a chance, the dude just straight up kicks me because he doesn't like me. Nobody else spoke up against him, the actual leader himself is far too smitten with him to do anything, or say anything.
So, now I'm here. Drifting between FCs because the one FC I felt welcome in decided to manufacture drama over something I said and kicked me without approval of anybody else. I'm not saying I'm inocent - far from it. But instead of talking it out, the other person decides to be a drama llama.