27(M) from France speaking. Sorry for my 'not so perfect' english. This story happened 2 years ago, at the time I was in a 3 years long relationship with my ex. She just had left the country to go study in the USA, so we were in a long distance relationship.

So 2 years ago I was touring with my band in Switzerland. During the show, when I was playing, I noticed a girl in the crowd. Her beauty struck me right away. She was the cutest girl I ever seen in my entire life. I remember thinking "If there's one person I want to talk to after the show, this is her". End of the show, all the bands are hanging out in the green room, partying and having a good time. Then, out of nowhere, the door opens and the girl I saw earlier (lets call her Anna) came into the room with 2 friends of here. I started to feel very happy, because I knew it was the opportunity to talk to her. Dont get me wrong, I knew I was in a relationship, but I just wanted to talk to her in a friendly way.

The 3 girls just wanted to party with us. So after that, me, my friends and the 3 girls went out. We went to different bars, hang out outside, and even went to their school where they studied. We had a really good time all together. I started to talk with Anna and we left the group to be only the two of us. We talked for hours outside the club where we played. It was so easy and good to talk to her, like we were friends since forever. We talked about the fact that I was in a long distance relationship, and that I was feeling insecure about the fact that maybe the distance will tear apart my couple. She was in the same situation, her boyfriend was living far away and she was only seeing him one time per month, and she was not happy in this relationship.

So here we are, it's 5a.m., we both are in a weird weakening relationship, both drunk, and we are both starting to hit on each other. I say to here : "I think you're cute, I just want to kiss you". She responded : "I think you're cute, I want to kiss you too. Please, can we go to your room". And then it hits me : "I have a girlfriend, I love her. She's away, but she's gonna come back in a year. You have to be strong. This girl you just met, she lives 600 kilometers away, she speaks a different language, you're not compatible. Stop it right now".

So I said that to her. She felt the same way. She agreed that it was not a good idea since we both living far from each other. We just kissed on the cheeks and said goodbye.

It was definitely the right person at the wrong timing.

If you want to know what happened next, tell me.