WIBTA if I asked my wife to lose weight?

3AM-1PM baby is 100% with me. I wash all dishes, every time, clean the bathrooms and kitchen, vacuum the house, clean the floors, mow the lawn and clean the leaves, do home reparations, grocery shopping, full time job, full time study, and when I have time I help folding laundry. She only does laundry every other week, and cooks only lunch following the menu that I prepare every weekend and make sure I buy the ingredients for. She does take care of baby 10PM to 3AM, but usually wakes me up to heat the milk at least once, and the baby is pretty quiet, so she sleeps at least an hour inbetween. She wakes up at 10AM and starts work, and then from 1PM to 10AM we pretty much share responsibility of the baby.

There is so much misguided projection on your comment. I never "admitted" she is the only one who takes care of the baby, that is what you read.

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