I hope your wife isn’t suffering from postpartum depression. Because I couldn’t even image being cut open, stitched back together, handed a newborn and my husband telling me I’m not doing enough. You say you feel burned out. Okay, but what about your wife? She’s the one who grew a tiny human and had a c section. I also feel like your wife is still doing chores. You said you walk the dogs, cook and do dishes. Which btw. Putting dishes into a dishwasher isn’t hard. Or making a bottle. You made no mention of laundry, tidying up or vacuuming. Is she doing these things? If she isn’t… You’re YTA for leaving important information out to get people on your side. You failed to mention the c-sedation. So I really wouldn’t be surprised if you failed to tell us more.

Also, this kid is yours too. Marriage and raising a kid isn’t always 50/50. Again, I really hope your wife isn’t suffering from postpartum depression. YTA.