Women of Reddit, what's something men largely overthink when trying to make a good impression?

Trying to be too good like "I'm trying to stop smoking / drinking/ porn" in like the first conversation and they make it sound like they're doing it for me and I'm just like okayy your decision I don't care enough to have a say in the matter... it's weird.

Their hair!!! this is a cute one so keep doing it! I dont know why but they always bring it up like it's too long it's going in my eyes or they'll ask to show me a picture of themselves after they got their hair done. Lol it sucks that men dont get complimented enough but I find it adorable when they fish for compliments.

Also my sample size isn't that big so other women might not agree. This was just my observation and experiences

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