Uh oh. Sounds like an abuser starting to drop the Nice and Charming mask. Lots of red flags here. Though I might be reading too much into it. Check Dear Abby's 15 warning signs of an abuser, and see how many apply to your SO.

On the other hand, every intimate relationship has fights. Hopefully that's all it is, especially if he apologizes afterwards and seeks to make it up to you. If he doesn't....I'd suggest you find someone else who treats you better. You have every right to be upset. I would be, too, if anyone treated me like that. If it were me, I'd tell him "I didn't like how you treated me last night. Don't EVER do it again. If you do, I leave." That's kind of strong, but that's me. I grew up with an abusive mom and made a vow I'd never let anyone mistreat me again once I grew up. A vow I kept. Everyone in my life treats me very well. I try hard to do the same for them. Knowing that no relationship or friendship is perfect, if I think someone is treating me wrong, I'll say "I'm upset right now. I'm out. We'll talk when I've calmed down". I'll explain without accusing, what hurt me, and why. Usually it's just a misunderstanding. I give second chances. I don't give thirds if the same thing happens again. Mess up once, it's a mistake. Mess up the same way again, after the talk, it's deliberate and the person doesn't respect me and I walk away permanently. Sometimes we just have to teach each other how to make each other happy and feel respected and cherished.

Your SO certainly didn't make you feel either respected or cherished. Ugh. No way do I want to stay with anyone like that. Being in a bad mood isn't an excuse. Lots of folks get in bad moods and don't take it out on their SOs.