I've lived here in a busy little neighbourhood for 7+ years now. First couple of years I hardly knew anyone and I was fine with that. Had to speak to the direct neighbours occasionally about packages or something, but not much.

Now I consider some my friends and have them round my house fairly regularly. I know the names of another 10 or so, they will keep an eye on my house and car, cook us food and cakes etc. I nod hello and occasionally chat a little to another 20. There have been others that have left the neighbourhood too.

I'm quite introverted really, but just smile and say hello, offer help if I think it's needed. If you have a dog or kid then people will speak to you often. If they mention they are celebrating something, drop round a box of chocolates or something and you got a good relationship.

I know the UK Reddit is usually quite private and doesn't want to speak to people, I used to be the same. I also see a lot of people on Reddit talking about loneliness. There are posts pretty much every week on the Leeds subreddit of people looking for friends.

It's much better to be nice to people and open to talking to your neighbours. You can learn a lot about the area, discover new things and events.

Most have jobs and careers, I get discounts at some restaurants now from a neighbor, met handymen and tradespeople etc.

You can also meet interesting people who at first glance you have nothing in common, but you never know for sure until you give them a chance.

Neighbours can also help you much more easily than even good friends or family that live a little further away. Need some last minute sugar for a recipe, to borrow a screwdriver or you lost your cat etc.

There are some people I don't like, but I just keep it civil and polite, but don't make any further effort.