Yup

I’ve recently started dating after a long marriage and I’ve noticed this too. How people open up to me, and I reciprocate to a point. Each relationship I’ve started is filled with quotes like “I’ve never felt like this way before so quickly”, “It’s only been a few weeks how am I so comfortable around you”.

It’s kind of strange, as if I’m competlely diferent from typical dating bologna. I feel like I get life stories from people, they share deep and sometimes dark details about their past. It really reinforces some of the stuff I’ve read about our types. Maybe it’s because we actually listen, or seem understanding, or trustworthy. Ive turned to using it to my advantage. It’s almost like a fast forward button on the typical feeling each other out stage.

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