We had a talk with her She wants sex as well and I understand that it can be uncomfortable. The problem is that since even before pregnancy she was commanding what to do, I'm fine with listening and trying what she liked. But whenever I suggested what I liked she made me feel like it was disgusting or awful. She is not dominant in bed, but refused to be submissive. It always was either her way or no way. And when I sometimes wanted makeup sex after arguments, she instead punished me by refusing anything at all. That was the whole problem. Even blowjobs or anal, she said no. And that was before pregnancy. I'm considerate for her needs to the point that even outside bedroom, if she doesn't let me even get drunk with friends, I do as she say.