I just want to point out something.

A lot of people here are bending over backwards trying hard to convince you not to break up with your girlfriend. Those people later admit that they stayed with their cheating SO.

Think about that for a second.

Remember what I said about painful stability vs. facing the unknown? Anyone who clings to painful stability wants to see other people do the same.

They will never ever say: “wow she cheated on you, wasted FIVE years of your life, and dropped this on your head once you were trapped... she’s not wife-material!”

Because if they said that, deep down, they’d have to face their own decisions as well.