Sure. Be confident, outgoing, and unapologetic. Do hobbies that you’re passionate about. Have a fun and exciting life, with or without women in it. When women see you have an amazing and successful life they want to be a part of it because they know your happiness doesn’t depend on them and you don’t need them, and that is super attractive.

Also, be kind. Be honest with the women you date. It will go a long way. You don’t need to use any BS pickup lines or strategies. Being confident doesn’t mean being a cocky asshole. Don’t lie to women to get sex, if you only want casual sex, tell them that, in a tactful way of course.

Don’t be too available, BUT not because you are playing some silly game and “waiting” to respond, do it because you are ACTUALLY busy with your career and your passions and women are not the most important thing in your life, you are. Don’t text forever, max I text for is 1-2 days before setting up a date. Usually set it up within the first 10-20 messages. Keep the mystery and build chemistry in person.

Have an abundance mindset, don’t put women on a pedestal. My time is valuable and I will not sacrifice important things to me to fit into their demands. If they flake or ghost then move on, don’t get mad or even text. Just move on with your life.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.