Thank you.

It's the lack of effort I'm upset about. Also, its not like ive yelled at him or anything over this. I'm upset and figuring out how I want to talk to him about this.

The main thing I don't think people are getting or maybe I wasn't clear about is that we don't often go out. Most of the time we spend time doing stuff he wants, what everyone is calling "introvert" stuff. These are those inside dates where we are just playing games or having a dinner.

We go out like once every few months and I'm upset that this one night every few months he doesn't stay out past ten. Also, we're hanging with our friends who are all couples. So when he leaves I end up like 5th wheeling.