The money issue is what turns me off about him. Even when I visited him the other day and I didn't have enough cash for the food. It was at a bar where they only accepted cash, he didn't have any cash and all I had was a $20, that also the only cash I had left to spend for my trip there. He still made me pay half of it. It was $48 or whatever, there was an atm and he withdrew money for the other part I couldn't pay for.

Later that same night, he asked if I had $7 to spare for his gas, where he could've paid it on his own. It's not like I was broke but it's just moments like this where he can easily pay for his own.

That's what worries me the most. The reality of this is, I don't think I'll ever get to earn as much or more than him, I'm not a tech expert and I honestly still don't know what kind of career is good for me. I have extensive experience with customer service and that's all I've known where I can get paid 13-18/hr. However, with that salary, I can still afford to live on my own. I'm just not as of now because I have to take care of family issues.

I just feel like he's so stingy with his money and i just feel he's a bit too selfish :/