Thanks I needed to hear this... I always waver back and forth on this about if I should stay in the relationship or not. Like just a few days ago I was thinking how great we were, but then this happens and it reminded me of the countless other times it has happened. Like it's pretty much at least a 2x a week occurrence. Honestly I wanted to break up with her a few months ago because of this, but I stayed with her because I knew if I left she would be in a very dire financial situation. I don't want to get into the details for fear of she or someone I know figuring out who I am, but basically we just moved to a very expensive city together a few months ago. She doesn't know anyone here except me, and there's no way she could afford our rent on her own or even a single bed rent on her own in this area. She'd either have to move back to our hometown or in with her parents, and we spent so much on the move + she'd have to pay back a signing bonus she doesn't have the money for at her company. I don't want to screw her over like that, and I also don't know 100% if this is what I want. I've broken up with people in the past and regretted it... life is so complex.