Yeah, the best you get are platitudes. "You'll get through this", "I'm here for you" etc... Some people will even try to keep in contact with you for a week, but everyone leaves eventually, they either get tired of dealing with you or think they fixed you and for half a second you think "Maybe this person will stay and we could actually be close friends despite how I feel" But then they stop messaging you, and even if you reach out and try to talk to them or hang out with them they're always busy with someone or something else. I get that people can't be available 24/7, that's just unrealistic, but like coffee once every other month or something, anything, to at least make me feel like I'm kind of wanted. Fuck, I'm so lonely.