Ok cool facts, I really do appreciate the rational argument, but the issue at hand is not that she makes a bad partner and future prospect due to her past (which may or may not be true), but that’s not the main issue.

It is totally fine if you do not want to date someone that has been with many people, hence why I said he should find a virgin. The main issue is when people think it is morally okay to say shit like they’re disappointed or bothered by them and thinking it is literally okay to shame someone and make them feel less for events that have already happened. It’s the crossover from judgement to just being an asshole that is the problem.

Again, let me reiterate: the problem is not judging someone, go ahead and do that all you want in your head and avoid them. We all judge at times. The problem is the being a huge dick about it part once that personal judgment becomes outward shaming towards others.