[32F] Having given up on both romantic and platonic connections, I'm just seeking familial connections now - specifically an older brother.

I tell people beforehand I'm not looking for a relationship when we connect hence I only ever post in friendship subs before. Problem is people treat those subs as pre-dating subs and require photos and socials upfront and ghost me when I refuse.

And the reason why I get offended when people catch feelings is that they are literally in a relationship/married yet act inappropriately towards me / become possessive or clingy after awhile.

Surely there are some people who are forever alone or in this sub atleast who aren't FA just because they cannot get a single date? I consider myself FA since I've been too traumatised by my last relationship and also realised I'm too damaged to ever properly love someone.

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