overbearing parent and sensitive demeanor

Yes, I'm familiar with that, and I see other FA30+ who seem to have one or both of that. I had an overbearing parent and a sensitive demeanor.

pursuing and flirting is something even normies struggle with in the current cultural climate. Bars and clubs aren't great places for it. (Most people are out with their friends.)

Yes, many normies aren't even the "bar or club" type, even if they come off normal, have decent looks, etc. There are plenty of places to meet potential partners, even if they never set foot in a bar or club. Dating apps is the first to come to mind these days.

It requires a social circle and consistent opportunities, and positive feedback.

Yes, that's probably true in any situation, not just the bar-club thing. I suppose most FAs are judged and rejected in any sort of situation and place, definitely not limited to bars/clubs.

I also assume most FA30+ people don't have many friends or any real friends at all because they're usually undesirable people that people don't generally want to interact with an any capacity, not just in dating or relationships. FA30+ just seem like the overall rejects of society.