Damn I knew I shouldn't have read your long comment.
I NEVER SAID THEY SHOULDN'T GO TO THE COPS! Blinkin' Nora! I'm saying SHE is the one who should go to the cops, SHE should be the one empowered to make that choice! Sweet Jesus you honestly thought I didn't think she should go to the police? So this whole time you've been getting increasingly pissed thinking I'm saying to NOT go to the police? Sweet jesus.
Also re-read your last comment really slowly... and again... see the problem? THE VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE - AKA THE WIFE! The husband isn't the victim, THE WIFE IS so you GOTTA TELL THE WIFE SHE'S A VICTIM IF YOU WANT THE POLICE TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT! And the last thing about it can cover your family? That means the WIFE could have it cover her HUSBAND, not the husband to have it cover the wife because, again, HE'S NOT THE VICTIM! For pete's sake. I even said that what he did constitutes as stalking (and constitutes as sexual harassment) but it's (sadly) likely that nothing they bring forward would stick. And yeah, I'm no legal expert, you got me there, and I'll admit I was wrong with my definition of circumstantial evidence, but don't claim to be anyone other than someone googling this shit the same as I am.
Lastly point 2 you twisted/misunderstood my point. I said telling the wife that she lived with a sex offender is going to be stressful, telling her that she was the object of the stalking is more stressful but BOTH are stressful. I said NOTHING about a stalker in the streets VS someone in your home. What I'm saying is that SHE DESERVES to know so that she can protect herself against him and NEVER give her the benefit of the doubt.
Also by the way male rape victim here, way to presume I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT YOU CROCK OF SHIT. AND HOW DARE YOU THROW THAT IN THERE AS IF TO JUSTIFY YOUR POINT YOU ABSOLUTE HEARTLESS WANKER. Go think about what you just did. Because IF ONE PERSON had told ME that that women wasn't just a freak I felt sorry for then I MIGHT HAVE BEEN OK YOU FUCKING TOSSPOT.