> - The husband is on the thicker side. I'm not so anxious about the size, more with the overall width/thickness.

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Get over it. Statistically it is rare to find anyone close to me. I didnt choose my dick and your wife will go home with you. In fact I was turned down today. Insecure people are what makes this hard.

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> Genital grooming for both men and women (What is most common?)

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Just keep it clean. No one likes a mouth of hair.

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> Clean up routine after sex (Both men will be using condoms)

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Dealers choice?

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> Sex position recommendations (Would like to find positions to have eye contact with my husband)

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make sure thats okay with them. We are very business translation like and that would violate out rules. Or maybe im misreading that and you two just want to be in communication which is fair. if its a 4some there will so much going on just make sure one of you can adjust and isnt locked down.

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> If you have any other advice or experiences to share please feel free. All info helps!

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Relax, go with the flow, and be vocal but also make sure to talk about general rules and expectations before going in.