Advice on what to do with my current/ex gf?

The other night while very sick and mentally vulnerable I lashed out at her as she went out and partied with our friends. I told her she meant nothing, to leave my house and to stop being a part of my life.

What?!??!?!? You ... you are surprised she feels a bit upset over that? What did you think her reaction would be?

If your girl is going out with a great time with her friends, you fucking say "have fun" and enjoy some quiet time, and then listen to her when she gets back about her day, then go to bed. I knew this shit at 15. What were you thinking lashing out & trying to spoil her girls' night? You realize her friends all know what you said ,right? They probably encouraged her to end it, and I can't say I blame them!!!!!!!

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