AITA for being on Seeking Arrangements for its intended purpose?

This is clearly the unpopular opinion, but YTA, and I say this as a sugar baby. (Now this clearly does not include the people I called you a slut, that's ridiculous).

You sound pretty new to this. For those of you that are unfamiliar, it's called Seeking Arrangement because the men on that site are looking for longer-term prospects. Oh believe me, they're happy to pay - and pay well - as long as you're going to actually date them. There are exceptionally few people that are going to send money without a physical relationshop or at least an in-person date. (By physical relationship I'm not talking about only sex, but a relationship where you actually go on dates.) The chit-chat is to help you determine which relationships have potential and who you want to meet, not to make a quick buck off of these men. Some are willing to have discussion-only or virtual-only relationships, but those are hard to find and will absolutely be specified in the description.

I realize that locked down is making this more difficult to do if you're not already in an established arrangement. However, as someone that has been doing this for a few years, please let me tell you that you are absolutely being unreasonable by expecting cash for conversations. If that is your expectation, you need to be specifically searching for those people. By the sound of your post you're very new to this and have VERY unrealistic expectations.

Since you are clearly new to this, let me just tell you that a "standard" arrangement is about 4 dates per month, with sex, for $2,000 allowance, daddy pays for dates and shopping.

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