Both 19.

I got the landlord because she had to go alone to the uni town(3 and a half hour bus away), so I offered to come with her. She was really shy talking to landlords and since almost every student was in town trying to get a place, you had to lock one down quick.

I never told her what arrangements to make with her roommates, I just reminded her that maybe she should contact them.

It's not about her not asking this instant about me staying over, it's about her saying that she wants to just wait until a day I'm supposed to come and just spring it onto them.

She's complaining she's scared that I won't be allowed to stay over, and I didn't tell her to do anything, only that I'm uncomfortable with coming over if she's telling them the day of.