I did tell her it made me uncomfortable that there were no photos of me, and only photos of ex gf, she told me they were still nice photos.

Not seeing her would actually cause more harm than good because it would be strange if my H always went without me. I also am a peacemaker by nature and don’t want to be an obstacle in my H’s relationship with his mom.

My H does stand up for me, but she just shrugs it off, acts ok for a while and then gets back on it. I also know my H loves me. It’s more about being deliberately mistreated by a person who makes me feel bad about myself.

I haven’t done anything like this before or since. I actually bought her a new frame. She still has all the photos saved on her computer to this day.