AITA for not letting my husband meet our first born child

I hate reddit sometimes. Granted, this is unrelated to the post.

Theres so many stories where everyones screeching that the husband cant be there if the wife doesnt want him there.

And as soon as the wife wants him there, heck even if it was a situation like this, where he mostly helped a family get themselves a bit together after a carcrash which at the moment probably caused some very real fears to erupt in their heads, Well yeah, if she wants him there, and he didnt come, And I quote: "Divorce him. Make sure to mention that he chose not to be there so you get sole custody"

Its funny how so many lonely AITA women hate men. I think he was TA yes, but I also think had she denied him seeing his own child to be birthed, then she would be TA yes.

Else, if women can say no, so should men be able to. Thats how it should be (sadly isnt) in every situation, whether its military, manners, children ect...

Everything else will by definition be sexist.

TLDR: radical AITA women should stop hating men and accept men have a life too.

/r/AmItheAsshole Thread