We are comparing my and OP's experience... not mine and that of women in my country... So I dont see how your comparaison is relevant here... If you're not interested in a man opinion that's on you. but this reddit is for everybody to express their opinion and I don't think that my being a man makes my opinion invalidate my opinion. Each experience is unique and I think you're oversimplifying everything by doing easy categoric comparaisons like those you're doing right now.

I have been harassed by groups of guys sometimesin dark alley and really felt intimidated. And it was related to the fact that I did modeling (which you stastiscaly find mostly gay people that engage in predatory behaviour where I live). So please again don't make asumptions about my experience.

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Regarding the example I chose, I have allready acknowledged that I have made a mistake by saying that OP is an AH as she has offered to talk to her BoyFriend the next day and it was reasonable for him to wait. So I fail to see what point you are trying to get trhought to me.