I tried to do this to an INTJ at work recently. I suggested we stop talking to each other because we can't seem to get along. The real reason was I just don't want to feel for him the way I do. Anyway, he agreed and I felt relief!

The next day, he talked to me more than ever. Since starting work again this year, we've chatted for hours in the last week about music, literature and some kind of deep, personal stuff. He won't leave me alone and I don't have the strength to make him but I am terrified of this new development. I don't know why he's suddenly giving me so much time and attention but I'm STRESSED TF OUT.

I wanna cut him off so badly but we work together and I love my job. There's no avoiding him.