ok, dont take this the wrong way but you have made a lot of comments and given a lot of advice on this thread and have been very adamant about your dating opinions. advice I completely don't agree with I might add.

so I thought I would have a look at your post history to see where you are coming from a bit more. basically to see if you yourself are a success in the relationship and dating world and maybe I'm the one that's got it all wrong. I generally take advice from people that have what I want and are successful themselves.

here is just one snippet of what I found.....

"Just tonight I sent a picture of my legs in the bathtub to a dude I have a monster crush on. We've had this back and forth thing going for a while. Both have professed attraction, but nothing has gone down yet and I'm ready for it to.

I went through a phase of being really forward and just asking guys out. It didn't work in my favor and I ended up being really embarrassed. One of them, I see occasionally through work and I can feel myself turning beet red every time we cross paths. Ugh."

among other gems, such as being in a bunch of FWBs situations, the exact opposite of a successful female dating strategy. similar to a guy bragging about taking a bunch of women out on dates, spending a bunch of money on them and then never getting laid but trying to come off as tho hes a dating guru.

maybe it's time for you to reevaluate your take on the gender dynamics you seems to feel so strongly about. clearly its not working out well for you. less advice and more listening on this sub might serve you well.