This question always gets the ire of Bulls as its complicated...For cucks there are 2 categories of wannabe cucks, the ones that have this fantasy and never have discussed with wives and those that have and she said NO! Then there are the ones that have had this discussion and the wives are intrigued, use it as RP but are hesitant for many reasons but are really into idea but would never initiate and are on fence....I think its a lot less of an issue for those as that first situation is always the hardest and really would happen with right situation.

Thats how mine started as she had told me she clearly been fantasizing about other men, she knew I was turned on by it but it took a hot guy meeting her at Starbucks for her to basically sort of cheat on me. Wasnt same as cheating but she clearly didnt take much to be making out with him same day she met him and of course later she asked me for an open marriage after they had met 2 more times...