I playfully wrestle with my boyfriend once in a while. I’ve always been play fighting with my brother so it was natural to do it with my boyfriend too.

One thing I realised as I got older was that my brother let me win sometimes - underlined by the fact that he would often pick me up, upside down, and carry me around like it was nothing.

My boyfriend lets me win too, sometimes.

I think it’s fairly normal for guys to be stronger than we are. It’s even fairly normal in the animal kingdom.

I don’t know if you’ve ever seen puppies or kitties play, but the male often lets the female win. I have a 10-12 kg Maine Coon boy and a 3 kg Norwegian Forest cat girl. He even pretends she kicks his ass so she can strut around like she’s hot shit.

In my experience, they think it’s fun and that it encourages the girl to play more.