yes because she got cheated on twice and wasted 13years of life married to another man who didn't want to behave. So she decided to settle, it did not pay off. I'm SURE you have heard these stories from women many MANY times. Which sex is likely to scam women for sex or use them to 'pump and dump'...it isn't women.

How is it goldigging? Does it not take money to buy a house and raise children? Do women not oversee most of the domestic caretaking duties still regardless if the man earns less? Why should I be doing it all? Why should I be with a man who is stagnant and is happy to stay broke? WHY? Because some men say nice flattering words to get into your panties? To use you? To avoid therapy/being lonely?

Men always like a bargain. You are forgetting most men say what women want to hear to their face, but they are often up to no good behind your back. I have no way of knowing how low your threshold is for a good man, but by the sounds of it it didn't take much to impress you.