Yah. I felt like I never imposed anything onto him. He was always free to do what he wants and still is. I feel like the problems he brought up were all from himself. It sounded as if he wasnt able to gym because of me leading to his unhappiness with weight and activity. He doesnt need me there and told me many times its ok that I am not into powerlifting.

I never tell him he has to be home at certain times. He can always go do it. I thought he stopped due to his shoulder injury which would prevent him from sleeping well. He has this job. I feel like hes blaming me as well when we first met he told me this position was what he was working for. His goal was to be promoted and have then relocate him. They did that. And he told me to come with him since the schools I wanted to apply to were up here.

I feel like hes gone back on a lot of stuff and kinda blaming me for everything bad now. I NEVER ask him for cash. He knows when I am struggling and will get groceries. I did groceries this month for us since I had money. I pay my own tuition and 300 dollars out of a 1500 rent. I earn literally maybe 1000 a month (1200 on a good month) and he brings home at least 3300. I do all the housework and kind of mentioned that I deserve to because I dont work as hard as him.