30 days?

It took me 30 years to even admit that I went to an abusive school and suffered there, and I still don't talk about what actually happened to anyone. They give you 30 days? I can't speak for anyone, let alone everyone, I have to imagine so many just aren't ready to come forward in that time.

Hiding the shit seems par for the course, especially when you got some BS rule of 30 days.

Then the "ahh cant make it looked bad" - oh sorry, my fault for letting you harass/abuse/assault me - I'll try harder to consent to something I dont want next time.

When people talk about rape culture and the likes - this is the sort of stuff that makes me think its really hard to deny we don't live in one. Rape culture (not to get off track here) sounds a bit like what I used to think shark infested waters meant when I was a kid, like bumper to bumper traffic of sharks - but it was just "yup, something potentially lurking out there".