I hear you. Maybe the fact that it's on reddit and not on an actual porn site like PH is a little too close for comfort.

You're allowed to think a bit deeper about this & really ask yourself does this actually bother me? why does it bother me? etc. and if you've realised that hey, this does make me feel a bit bad then that is 100% okay too.

i guess you just have to speak to your bf about it though & hopefully you guys can have an open discussion about it.

& just some elder sisterly advice - you should never stay in a relationship that makes you feel 2nd best or makes you feel the need to compare yourself to others, you deserve to feel secure & respected. not saying that this is happening, but just a lil reminder