BPers : What is TRP wrong about specifically?

In general I'm not even sure how to judge TRP because I can't find unilaterally agreed upon definitions for some of the basic stuff: alpha males/alpha females/all the beta and omega stuff. Are omegas lone wolves or lower tier betas?... So I'll be sticking to something I read on the ask TRP side bar that is unambiguous.

Unconditional vs conditional love: TRP says that men see love unconditionally and women see it conditionally. But most people are raised to not be automatically loved by their parents. Have to do chores, do homework, accomplish something in school, or sports. I don't understand how the assertion that women see love as conditional but men would see love as unconditional---how that makes sense. I haven't seen examples of unconditional love in real life. Even gorgeous people understand that the extreme attention they get is based on their looks. I really doubt they have no idea.

In the major religions, there is a god figure who has a set of rules to follow, that we must obey for a positive outcome. And then that god will love you. The major american religion, christianity, even has hell, a terrible place you go if you are sinful and/or don't believe their beliefs. And that the christian god doesn't love you if you're in hell. There is no free pass even in religion.

Supposing the following is true, the idea of boys being raised by their mothers to be nicer to girls (another thing I read in trp), that in itself implies that the mother set a condition for her approval. So that son would be raised with the understanding that love is conditional by nature because of how his mother modeled it. Approval in return for doing what she asked.

Honestly, I even find the persistance of the concept of unconditional love in society to be a flaw and to be evidence of emotional thinking over rational. There are no benefits to believing there are no standards. Believing in unconditional love means that that person would accept being cheated on.

Yes, love is an emotion in itself, but the rational part is that we can choose to distance ourselves from harmful people and allow the emotion to die out. Gotta save the feels for people who have proven themselves worth it.

Td;lr. Conditional love good, unconditional love bad.

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