I have never given a gift when I have been in a wedding but I have only been in weddings out of state before. But I always give one when I have attended one, unless I was someone’s plus one and then they have given the gift. I’m just going to go with the flow and talk to others in the wedding party and see what they are all doing. I just think with what’s happening with the pandemic it makes for a more difficult time. My hours were cut to 10 a week and I don’t qualify for unemployment so that makes it difficult as it is to afford everything. Honestly had I know this would happen I would have declined being in the wedding. Thank you for your input!