a call to action for asian men and hapa men

I cringe when AMs on some of these subs act like dating a white woman is some pinnacle of achievement. It comes across as beta bc it seems like you're putting them on a pedastal and buying into white supremacy beauty myths when in actuality, being with attractive females of any race and rejecting the narrow ideals imposed on people of color by colonialism will get AM much further than worshipping white women will. Black men date white women at a much higher rate than Asian men do - yet where has it gotten them? Has it fixed all of their problems in the West?

 It almost makes me feel like some of the guys here who claim to have white SOs are lying because they seem to be infatuated/romanticizing the idea of white women in their minds, when in reality dating white people isn't that any more special than dating anyone else... As someone who lives in a predominantly white area and gets approache by white men, I've dated a few who were well educated and considered mainstream attractive, but I don't obsess over them by any means and it hasn't been some life-altering experience, lol. At the end of the day they were just normal guys who had their faults just like everyone else. Stop putting white women on a pedastal. 
/r/hapas Thread