Cool, thanks.

Well I guess I wanted to talk about this one encounter because I can't tell if I'm overreacting. I just have some things I need to get off my chest and I would love insight/advice. Last weekend I had a sexual encounter with my bf that left me feeling really weird and somewhat violated. We were having sex and everything was fine, but then toward the end he started going quite hard. It felt good but also hurt so I said "I can't take it anymore" and pretty much right after I said that I felt him slow down then I could tell he was cumming, I asked him if he was cumming and he said yes. So he stayed inside me for only a few seconds after I expressed my discomfort. After, I told him I wanted him to pull out immediately and he claimed he didn't think I would care if he just stayed in me for a few seconds since I said that as he was cumming. Now I feel kind of violated and weird about it. This was the first time anything like this has ever happened, he's always been super receptive in the past whenever I told him I was in pain. After I told how upset I was, he apologized and said he would never do it again. We've been intimate since then, and during he asked me if it hurt, and how I felt. So he seems like he's trying to remedy the situation. I'm trying not to demonize him, but the experience sat with me really weirdly. So I was just wondering your specific take on this? I have such an anxious and obsessive mind that I keep thinking about it, even though we've since talked about it and he said he would never do it again.