I’m sorry that your experiences don’t like up with that. But it is true. For one thing, women are just more attractive than women to begin with. So there’s an inherent disparity in couplings.

I dated a short, skinny, baby-faced, non-bearded, introverted, socially-anxious guy who made the same amount of money as me. He dressed well, kept up his hygiene, and most of all was kind, thoughtful, had some self confidence and we shared similar interests. We dates for a year — until he became insecure, controlling, manipulative, and his mental health took a turn.

So yeah. I know you’re dealing with thinking you could never date anyone (especially someone attractive) based on those limitations you think you have. But it’s not true. It’s all about how much you let it impact you.