Cheated on my wife after 14 years together. Guilt and confusion.

I’m surprised you didn’t tell her parents to leave years ago ! Guilt trips mean NOTHING so idk why you keep feeling bad about MIL having to go back to Mexico (My grandparents are ALSO from Mexico but they came on a green card) and have always worked hard for what they wanted in life . They would never treat my white father the way you’ve been treated smh your in laws are just overall shitty people so why would you want your kids to be raised around that ? If you’re on eggshells in a house you pay for then change it or tell your wife you will make arrangements to find a new place to live and get a custody agreement in place asap . There was absolutely NO REASON to cheat on your wife if you refuse to even take control of your own life .

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