So, she either gives you sex or you cross her boundaries with porn or cheat? Wtf is wrong with you? This is actually going to have the opposite effect. It's going to make her resent having sex with you, but I supposed now she has to or you will just cheat on her. Lol.
She's going through fucking menopause and dealing with your selfish bullshit at the same time. I feel bad for her.
Control yourself and your dick. You're acting pathetic and you are going to destroy your marriage. Be patient and considerate of what her body is going through. You act like you will literally die and it's only been A MONTH.
I wonder what you would resort to if she got cancer or something?