Be completely honest- 21F, I get mixed reviews. Am I ugly?

I think you look really, really great. Like OMG great.

I really like the glasses, myself, though I can see what the many commenters preceding me mean. In your first pic you like some elf of cuteness -- as in young and tiny and posed and probably all made-up with cosmetics. That the pic is pretty pixelated tends to confirm this in my mind, but hey, I don't really know.

In the second pic, you look more real. And while I love those glasses, I recognize that I have a thing for the sexy-librarian stereotype, and maybe the sort of guys who go in for that are not the ones you want to be noticed by.

I still think you should keep the glasses, but maybe go for something a little narrower in the vertical dimension. I like them just as they are, but I'm not terribly fashionable.

I also think you have a great figure. I can't help but notice that that belt seems cinched excessively tightly. You're not even fat, or poorly proportioned -- and I'm a guy who enjoys looking; you can tell because I'm here in this sub.

The overly cinched-thing speaks to me of insecurity, which is a net disattractor (it's a word now, I just made it). It will attract men who are looking for women with vulnerabilities to exploit. It will drive away men who have experience with women who insist they're not good-looking, evidence to the countrary.

That last is tough, because it's like you're insisting that this dude who's into you is a liar and a fraud.

Now, I know that my comment here is now verging on a novella. The thing is, I'm seriously on the verge of unsubscribing from this subreddit. I know my habit of picking posts from women I find attractive isn't helping anyone, not even me. Even if you believe my words, you're likely to go back through my post history here on reddit and find me telling other women you also do not think are pretty that they look good. Therefore, my opinion is invalid.

You don't see me picking the posts to comment on. You don't see me passing over posts from teenaged girls, not because they are not good looking, but because wow, that's way too young. At least I might theoretically run into you in a bar or something.

In my opinion, too many women post here looking for "constructive" advice, where "constructive" necessarily means "negative". Such advice always seems to be "lose weight", "hit the gym", and "wear more makeup".

Well, if that sort of criticism is wanted, I say: if you try to lose weight, you'll just end up with smaller boobs. If you try to tan, you'll look like a roast turkey. And there isn't any guy on earth who can't tell when you're wearing a shitload of foundation.

(You don't seem too worried about your complexion though, which is great, because you needn't.)

You've admitted in comments that you're wearing a lot of makeup. I really wish you'd post some pics that aren't so made up.

But I admit that I'm just one more creeper on the Internet. You can tell, because I responded positively to your pics.

But that's why I feel that this sub has become a cesspool, and I probably should GTFO. I'm not claiming to know you or like you. I just think you look good.

And I apologize for turning my apathy for this sub on you. It's not personal. I don't expect anyone to care for my farewell letter either.

And that's why you should post better pics, here or elsewhere -- not because of me, but because this sub has become obsolete.

You look fantastic.

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