3. Constantly fighting with my wife

Constantly fighting with my wife

I'm struggling like OP for a different reason. No matter what I'm doing, she complains that it's not enough. All night taking care of twins. Not enough. Carrying 10 bags of groceries (including several cans of formula) several kilometers home. Not enough. Continuing to crawl through my full time job towards vacation time. Not enough.

I finally snapped at her tonight and feel terrible. But, she called me a horrible father/husband because I don't remember appointment times (I don't, I left that up to her, but am changing that now so that I'm also mindful of appointments).

But after snapping, she pulled the "let's get divorced" card which I hate. I know she's not serious, but it really tempts me to agree and go through with it before she can rescind.

I love her beyond measure as I do my family, but I have my limits...

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