I have a date with women that is 10+ years older than I am, any tips?

Relax and have fun!

I dated a woman 12 years older than me when I was 24. She was AMAZING. The dates we went on were so much fun. She'd pack stuff for a picnic, and we would go to the park and eat cheese, high end deli meats and drink wine while talking about things like politics, art, movies, music, etc. It was truly awesome.

She knew what she wanted. Girls in their early 20's don't know who they are or what they want (especially sexually). She taught me SO much about sex and passion overall. She was just incredible.

This date isn't likely going to be anything like taking a girl your age out to dinner and a movie. Try to find something different to do with her. Don't be nervous, just go into it with an open mind.

I will give you some sound advice if you end up hooking up with her. I really only share this with my close friends but I think you would benefit from this...

If you end up having sex with this woman, just like with any woman, it's a bit stressful and there is a lot of tension to perform and this technique has worked 100% for me over the years.

When you get inside of her, go like 5-10 pumps and then fake an orgasm. You want to SELL this shit. Use your kegels, but don't overdo it. Once you finish the fake orgasm, become a dead weight on her and breathe really heavy. The next step is the most important. You need to lay on her, breathing heavy, maybe shaking a little bit, for a good 30 seconds. It has to be long enough that you can just sense that she's thinking "Are you fucking kidding me right now?!"

Once you can sense that tension, that disappointment, say "Just kidding!" and go back at it. Cuts the tension, you both laugh a little bit and can just have fun with each other.

This method has never not worked for me. Use it wisely, and you can only use it once per woman. It is gold.

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