You didn't "lose" anything

Unfortunate how common this is :( but it doesn’t usually say anything about our characters.

Usually, which my recent ex would agree with, the unsure partners are unsure of who they are and what they want. And when you don’t know what you want, everything given to you is not what you want. So they could have the world, the perfect person, but they would still feel like they need to search for something else. This lack of contentment and this confusion does not go away without a good amount of time and life experiences.

At the end of the day, we should consider ourselves lucky that we have the ability to know what we want and love fully.

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