Difficulty Getting Started

I'm not the most successful on tinder and I ger a few matches, so I'll let the tinder gurus help you out.

What I can help you with is your style and fashion. Three areas immediately jump out at me. Your hair, shirt/clothes, and your expression.

  1. Find a good Barber or stylist and consult with them to get a cut that fits your face and hair type. Also head over to /r/malehairadvice and ask for advice. Keep in mind that most replies that you get in that sub are from shitty people that will give you shit. A few good replies will guide you in the right direction though. They can give you advice on a cut that suits your face and hair, as well as advice on what products to use and how to style your hair.

  2. Get a nice fitting button up shirt. Doesn't have to be tuxedo formal wear but setting that fits is a must. The tees are okay for outdoor events, once you get a few dates in, and lounging around at home. For tinder, you want to put your beat foot forward. /r/malehairadvice is a good place to to for clothes. Keep in mind that you should take all advice with a grain of salt.

  3. Your smile. Thing about something that makes you really happy. Cute girl at work make eye contact with you? Find out you got accepted into whatever program you've busted your ass to get into? Get a new job you've been jones'ing for? Met your favorite recording artist? Whatever. Just remember how it felt and let that feeling take over your face. It sounds stupid, but for me, it's not a mouth movement. It's more like I can feel my cheeks pulling back and my mouth forms a smile as a result.

Best of luck man! Feel free to ask me any questions too. I'll help with what I can.

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